Vacationing With a Pregnant Woman July 26, 2008
Posted by Dad in The pregnant progress.Tags: airplane, travel, vacation
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We have mostly adjusted back to being at home and am now in a state where we can reflect on our trip, having gotten over most of the negative effects of jet lag.
I have to say that vacationing with a mid-second trimester woman is not a bad thing, at all. In fact it was quite enjoyable. First of all, there’s the logistics. People treated us a lot nicer. We got upgraded. People were willing to give way to S. That was nice.
The biggest change, though, was that the fact that pregnant women don’t have the energy and stamina of non-pregnant people. We had to slow down. We had to pace ourselves. I thought that this would prove terribly unnerving as I see vacation as something of a competitive event and endurance sport. As a friend puts it, I’m infamous for my “forced death march” of walking tours. But in slowing down this year. We came home not exhausted. We didn’t have to have “slow days” on our vacation because all days were “slow days”. But we also got the chance to experience the culture more.
All in all, it was probably the best vacation we’ve had as a married couple.
Also, after having discovered www.deliciousbaby.com, we’re thinking we might lift the no-travel ban on young children. So more fun, international vacations to come!
Beginning Week 17 June 28, 2008
Posted by Dad in The pregnant progress.Tags: lack of sleep, quad screening, sleep, travel, vacation
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Just a morning update. Today begins week 17. This past week, S. went for her quad-screening. This is the first time we’ll get a risk assessment for chromosomal abnormalities plus isthe test for neural tube defects. She was expecting another finger-stick. What she got was 4 vials taken from her arm. As she put it, “they didn’t even offer me a cookie.” The test should be back next week.
We’re traveling in a few weeks. First the NYC, and then on to UK… Bath via London. Its okay for S. to travel internationally, as long as she gets up and walks on a regular basis (added risk of deep-vein thrombosis). Usually, she’s out like a light on the plane. I think she won’t have a problem, considering she’s had a problem sleep 8 straight hours at home for the past few weeks. I just looking forward to not having to stand in the queue because of deference for a pregnant woman.
Our vacation is book-ended by office visits. The day before we fly out, S. has her 18-week visit. When we get back, it will be time for the second trimester sonogram, which is when we would find out B.’s gender, should we decide to. And that is a blog post all its own.